3 major reasons why people end up in the wrong relationship

- March 19, 2020

Many have embarked on journeys in search of love, yeah to some it was worth it, I mean it all ended happily ever after but unfortunately to some it hasn't been so favorable rather full of regrets, tears and scars that got so deep such that it frightens them to ever go on that venture again.

This is why there are so many controversies about love, it's said to be unreal, bias, sweet, blind, mad and all sorts of. It's generally known that if you love too much, you would end up being hurt. Could that be the reason for these hurtful experiences? loving too much? Definitely not, excess love isn't self-seeking.

Grab a seat!!, as we tour on the three major reasons people end up in regrets and have wrong notions of love:

1. DESPERATION: Desperation is actually one of the basic reasons why people end up getting into the wrong relationship and thus being disappointed. An action taken in haste without reflection most times leads to regrets. Most people allow desperation and impatience drive them into the wrong hands and by the time the mistake is realized, the emotional damage has been done unfortunately it breaks them down psychologically and health wise too leading to depression and then the aftermath being suicide.
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2.INFATUATION: It's been heard amongst so many that once the vibe is there, a connection and a romantic relationship is most likely springing up from it. So, as a result of this vibe or feeling, people mistake it for love and jump into a relationship only to come out of it with a "Had I known" realizing too late that it was merely Infatuation.

3. PRESSURE: I wouldn't say peer pressure because there are also two contributors to it; the parents and society. Parental influence as well as societal could really encourage haste commitments. This reason actually shouldn't be blamed on the recipient of this pressures as it's only natural to succumb.

Of course, there could be a hundred and one reasons as to why people go into erroneous relationships but others are minute to these major reasons. The hurtful damage and scars that wrong relationships have caused to some has made them give up on the quest for love, as they believe there's no such but in a summary; You can't get to a place you have no map/direction to". So be willing to learn, unlearn, adapt, accommodate and embrace anything that is knowledge-worth.